Monday, September 5, 2022

Doug Bennett

Since I was six years old, I thought Doug Bennett was indestructible. But our high school class learned the hard way, during the year we were graduating, that none of us are. 

When I was six, I thought Doug was really made out of something else. He was just a little taller, and a little faster than most of us, almost impossible to knock over, it hurt if you ran into him…and, even at the age of six, he could throw a ball with serious velocity and accuracy. 

He was also one of the people that just won at everything. I was his basketball teammate when we won Pleasant View Junior High’s first city championship in any sport in its 40-year history...and that was just the start. In basketball at Hillcrest, we won a freshman conference title, two districts and a conference championship at the varsity level.

Then there was baseball, where listing the local championships would take too long, but his team won an American League state title, and Hillcrest won the Class 4A state championship in his senior year. 

Doug wasn’t just the backbone of those teams, he was more like a spinal cord made of iron. You don’t win championships alone – there was an abundance of talent and great coaching on those teams, but Doug Bennett was, most often, the centerpiece. 

Growing up with him you understood this: while Doug Bennett was naturally talented and athletic, he worked hard! As his teammate, or having to compete against him, if you wanted to get better, you tried to match his work in the weight room, his effort in practice every day, and his preparation. And he was that way about everything. He was a straight-A student because I’m sure he just couldn’t stand anything less from himself. 

He was great at every sport he played, and I’m convinced if he would have grown up 500 miles to the north, he would have been an elite hockey player, or maybe 1,000 miles south, he would have dominated soccer. And I believe he could have played college basketball had he chosen that route. 

But he was born to be a pitcher. It was not just his physical make-up, he had the perfect personality for it. He was confident with a streak of arrogance. Doug was an intense competitor, but his demeanor was even-keel. You never saw him panic or lose control. Even in celebration, he seemed as thrilled as everyone else, but at some point, it was time to move on to whatever was next. 

His pro career was cut short, but I’ve learned something about thinking ‘what-if.’ Sure, being healthy would have given him a better chance. But having worked in pro baseball for seven years, I learned that, even for elite talent, timing and being in the right organization at the right time plays a critical role. Being talented definitely is not enough. There are no guaranteed, sure-fire prospects. Things could have worked out differently, or they could have worked out almost the exact same way. 

Doug’s playing career is still something to be proud of – a two-time All-Southwest Conference selection, an NCAA All-American, he pitched in a College World Series…he was the best pitcher in the state of Missouri while in high school and one of THE best ever to come out of The Hill in any endeavor. 

In my first few years in minor league baseball, I remember getting BASEBALL AMERICA’S prospect guide and media materials from the Dodgers every year to see where he was projected to be assigned. I’d wonder if the Dodgers would move an affiliate into my league or he’d get traded to an organization where I could broadcast a game he was pitching in. That would have been a blast and it would have been awesome to catch up. But that wasn’t meant to be. 

Cindy got to see him a few times as his daughter went through Truman Elementary. I thought I’d see Doug more when we moved back here, but it was rare. I think he found me a few times at some Missouri Sports Hall of Fame luncheons – I attended the one where he received a Diamond Nine Award, but we never got a chance to talk very long. We would have had some great stories to exchange. 

Our class has lost WAY too many WAY to soon. But like many of you, this one feels different. Doug Bennett was a high-performing, yet steady, dependable, indestructible rock. 

Now he's gone...it's hard to wrap your mind around it.